The way I offer information is going outside clinics( standing on the public sidewalk) and say" Would you like some info on choices other than abortion?" These choices range from what an ultrasound is, where to get assistance, CareNet in Glenn Ellyn, the developing fetus, adoption, etc. Being a mother, myself, I just can't buy this false notion that you are seperate until the baby is born! Obviously, noone here has completed a pregnancy to term. There is nothing seperate about it. There is DNA, there are 2 heartbeats, You are literally sharing body space for 9 months with a little person. It is legal in this country to haveabortion. I don't try to restrict that at all for women, I just offer information that they will not get once they are inside the clinic. I believe this should be open dialouge and debate. The above ideas pro-coice and kurt have expressed both have validity. I always learn something new on these boards be it "pro-choice or"pro-life" people. Thank you! Tara